Your Life Begins With Words

Have you ever felt hurt by someone's words? Do you ever feel get a boost from someone because  of his words? yes indeed ... as if the words have in shaping their own strength .. person INCLUDING YOU

Words can sharpen, shape or kill you. words that are consistently repeated again and again for ourselves, we have established today. All the message to sink our subconscious and will automatically replay in our minds "as talking to yourself".

My MAN IS BROKEN

what you feel when you read the phrase above me ..? repeat these words over and wait for the next effect...

(I'm joking of course ... because it was so great effect if you continue, experienced..hehe)

If you are constantly praised, and you'll be more confident.

If you are constantly criticized, you will feel powerless, low self-esteem, no berharkat and no dignity.

Once you realize the cause of many doubts, worries, anger, and behaviors that inhibit the self, then you can do something to fix all that.

WHAT YOU CAN DO?

What can you do to repair the damage that has occurred, is replacing all the negative messages that milling about inside your head with positive messages. Positive messages called affirmations. And with constant repetition, the message will penetrate into your subconscious.

After the message arrived at the place, then he will start forming a new trust, and ultimately leads to a variety of new behaviors, positive and constructive. because believe it or not...in one day humans only use positive affirmations in him as much as 20%..residual negative affirmations in the form of doubt, distrust yourself, and feel weak

Now think of how long you live and count how many negative words are included in your subconscious mind..

So do not be surprised if you feel like a success of yourself and live a very hard truth is VERY simple.

Then how do I change it? The following are its basic principles.

1.      How to make affirmations

Focus on what you want, NOT on what you want to avoid. Instance, if you want to break the habit of despair, not to say "I will not despair from now" because the sentence was actually focused on the behavior you want to avoid. In other words, if you continue to think the word "desperate", then you tend to be more and enjoy what you are saying. Focus on what you want to say "I kept trying and are confident to achieve it".

No need to worry about this system is not working. Your subconscious mind is not useful, and he will soon be doing his job. After your message to your subconscious mind, the natural one will understand immediately the importance of doing something without despair. And automatically, your subconscious will create the desire to continue working and continue working.

make your affirmations short

If you try to make the affirmation that the complex, then you will lose focus. Focus only on ONE problem at a time.

use the present tense

Do not tell me “I'm going to be people who are confident” because your subconscious mind will always suspend his duty. Let's just say “I became more confident person today”.

make specific

Do not say “I'm losing weight” because your subconscious does not know how many pounds must be reduced. Say that “I lost weight within three months of  15 kg this year June 30, 2010.

use first person pronouns second and third

When you talk to yourself, using first person pronouns and not stick with negative words. For example, if you say “I’m stupid”, it will make others say “you are stupid”. Similarly Rudi stupid. Replace them with positive words. “I’m the best”. “You’re the best”. “Rudi is the best too”.

2.      Avoid conflict

If I use the phrase “I believe in myself”, not that I lack confidence? If this question is not exactly an affirmation of fraud? How can I trust a lie? There are five ways to reconcile these conflicts.

First, the re-affirmation that crafts the words into something that can be trusted. CHANGE “I believe” with “every day I become more confident”. exact words are less important. It is important that you can trust yourself.

Second, realize that your affirmations are NOT statements of fact, but an announcement about your target. That's not a fact, but it is the first step in realizing your dreams.

Third, use the rejection. Replace myself with “I believe I have been a coward. I am always confident”. Remember, do not just say “I was never a coward” because that will focus on negative behavior. Immediately follow with “me always confident”. That way, the statement will be positive again. Rejection by the sentence “I am always confident” of your subconscious will say that “I was a coward” not true.

Fourth, and this technique is very powerful. Use two sheets of paper. In a paper to write your affirmations about 20-10 times. Every time you write an affirmation, immediately write on the paper the other, regardless of the thoughts in your head associated with that affirmation. Continue to do so, affirmation - response, affirmation - response. You will find that your response in the second paper will slowly change. Responses will become more positive. For example :

“seems hard” to shift into :

“could be” to shift into :

“that could be trained” to shift into :

“I wish I could” to shift into :

“I know I can” to shift into :

“if I want to be able to”

AFFIRMATIONS TRAIN

Before starting to exercise, relax and clear your mind. Decide who will you handle this problem, then create your affirmations. Furthermore, affirmation write and practice your response (fourth on the way) about 20-10 times. Do this every night before bed. Wanderings of your mind you will be taking into natural sleep. That's when your subconscious mind to absorb your message and inspire changes in behavior.

Do this exercise every day for at least two weeks before proceeding to the next affirmation. Making journals and records all changes and events that occurred due your affirmation. This will keep you focused, strengthened and accelerated. The key is persistence and repetition. Janagn never miss needs. Make this a part of daily routine.

MANIFEST AFFIRMATION

no action nothing happen..do action, miracle happen

fter you write and practice saying affirmations that have been made..then you should take that into your goal. The easiest way to do it immediately after you said verbally..

For example, “I was embarrassed”. Then I make the assertion “I stopped being embarrassed. I feel comfortable talking with others”. While the asserted myself, I no longer take action to avoid other people, and say “Hi how are you?”. When I passed other people, I also welcome “Hey how you doing?”. There is no process be stopped.

By continuing to assert himself and continued to take small actions, I began to love because it found that spoken by other people more easily than I imagined. Soon after that “discovery”, I was ready to chat “extended” to me.

Hi than “how are you?” becomes “Hi how are you? Are you happy today?” I'm still shy, but I have been making progress!

I kept adding to it. And someone, will start asking more to me “you're going where?”. And without a doubt, “I'd say I go to the library”.

STREGNGTHEN AFFIRMATIVE

There are several ways to strengthen the affirmation. The easy way is to record your affirmations. Record your affirmations about 10 minutes. Use the pronoun first, second and third. Play your tape while you do other things. You do not need to listen consciously. Enough to convince me that your voice recording. He also does not sound too hard. Origin up to your ears only. Make the assertion that as a background music while you do things.

You also can write your affirmations on a special card, then stick in the glass bathroom. Stick it on your computer monitor. Make a screensaver. Put it in your wallet next to the money or cards. Regardless of where you can immediately see it. Remember, you will not need to see it accidentally, just let your affirmation messages ‘visible’.

In this world there are two forces

The one positive and one negative.

Second row and row without ever seeing each other.

Both are on each side of the same track.

Be careful to use the monorail.

Positive or negative.

Whatever be your goal. Ensure a positive for you.

Words have power and capabilities.

To drive a monorail.

The words that formed you.

Select only positive for yourself.

Choose positive on the monorail.

You will then be positive.

Be who you are to your destination.

With a positive affirmation.

Human subconscious accepts all forms of stimuli and thoughts given by the surrounding.. do not care..positive or negative

to be careful with your thoughts..Initially this case you control your mind....but after that the mind is controlling you...

See yourself in a positive start this..both because I believe YOU are reading this article .. INCREDIBLE PEOPLE BELIEVE...

Mind Manipulator

Andhika Chandra